Dear Readers, an update.


I know  I said I would be working on my blog over Christmas, but that has not materialized.  On the bright side my painter came in to touch up the walls on my remodel.  All I have to do now is hang a chandelier.

My breast cancer scare came back okay.  The contrast dye MRI showed no cancer, just excess tissue.  Yipee!

My son is still having great difficulty.  We are on a waiting list to put him into a partial hospitalization program.  Till then everyday, I am on high alert.  I have also had some health issues recently that required an increase in the medication I am on.  In all, very stressful.  All I do is trying to relax and avoid any other stress even if it is minor.

I hope you will all understand.  I am going to try to work on blog posts this weekend.  I am shooting for my new posts on February 1st.


I’m a little MIA.

Good Evening Readers,

Here is just a quick note to update you on what is going on and why I have not been posting.  Things have gotten quite stressful at the moment in my home life.  My son who has a variety of things wrong at this point has been having greater problems.  This takes up quite a bit of time.

Recently, I have also had some bad news in regards to my mammogram that I had.  I had some anomalies that needed to be looked at via ultra sound. One of the problems is a benign cyst, the other is unknown.  So now I am waiting to be scheduled for an MRI. I have breast cancer on both sides of my family.  So needless to say, I”m pretty stressed out.  I don’t know anything is wrong yet.  So I will have to wait and see.

I am also having some stress related illnesses at the moment too. So I haven’t been doing as much as I would like.

My remodeling is almost completely done.  I just need to have the painter back for touch ups and have an electrician hang up a heavy chandelier.

I plan on working on the blog over the Christmas Holiday so look for more posts then.  Thanks for reading.




Journal Prompts for December.

Here are some journal prompts for the month of December.  Enjoy!

1. Do a drawing or cut and paste photos of the signs of the Zodiac.  Does you sign suit you?  What is your horoscope.  What are the characteristics of each sign.

2. What are five items you lust after.

3. What does the word honor mean to you?

4. What are your favorite aspects of Winter?

5. Describe the winter scene outside your window.

6.Write out what your holiday menu will be.  Can you add illustrations?  Compare to holidays during other time periods.  What foods would you like to add instead?

7. Describe your favorite cake.

8. What are your favorite Christmas stories and why?

9. Do you like your name? Why?

10. What would you choose as your last meal? Your favorite meal?

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Ideas for Stocking Stuffers.


Tired of the same old ideas to put into your children’s stockings?  Here is a list of

1. Candy.  Well duh!  Instead of grocery store candy, so to a candy store or family run manufacturer to get unique products.

2. Hair Accessories.  Christmas is a great time to invest in barrettes, ponytail holders and other things as they come in sets!

3. Cards. No, I’m not talking business or credit, but playing cards.  There are still so many games you can play with cards.  Look in your toy section and find a few.

4. Small stuffed animal. So many cute things.

5. Rubik’s Cube. So many cubes are made today with varying degrees of difficulty.

6. Money.  Simple, yet so wanted by all.

7. Cosmetics. Lip balm, lotion, bath bombs, makeup kits, and more make a great stocking stuffer.

8. Small books. A great paperback or a little gift book works great.

9. Coloring books/crayons. You can get very inexpensive ones at the dollar store.

10. Gift cards.  Self-explanatory.

11. Tea or Coco mix.  Good stuff like food or beverage always is welcome.

12. Action figures or Tiny toys. So many things in miniature. Little cars are great!

13. Pens/Pencils. Use for all those books!

Hope these ideas help!  Or you can do the traditional fruit and chocolate coins as well.  What have you gotten in your Christmas Stocking.

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How to Celebrate Saint Nick’s Day.


Have you ever celebrated Saint Nikolas Day on December 6th?

Growing up in Southeastern Wisconsin in a German family it was celebrated every year. I’d go to school on the 6th and everyone would discuss what Saint Nick had brought them. It was a very big deal.  However, when I moved to another Upper Midwest state no one had ever heard of it.  Here is briefly the story of Saint Nikolas of Myra or jolly old Saint Nick.

The story of Saint Nikolas starts with a real person Saint Nikolas of Myra (270-346 AD) in modern day Turkey.  Nikolas was known for many good works, among which was giving gold to families in their stockings or shoes put by the fireplace or front door.

To commemorate Saint Nick’s generous nature, every year, on December 5th (evening) children put their stockings out for a visit from a more jovial form of the Saint.

In addition to cities with a strong German influence like Milwaukee, the holiday is celebrated by the Catholic and Episcopalian religions, and descendants with Polish, German, Dutch, and Ukrainian heritage.

Typical things left in the stockings include fruit, chocolate coins, and a small gift.  For my stockings, I would put my list for Santa inside the night before and Saint Nick would take it to Santa and leave a few presents to tide me over till the holiday.  The good children receive treats and the bad get nothing or coal.

For my own son I have also kept the tradition of St. Nick.  It’s a fun, magical time for little ones.  While you can have the day be a more religious one, a secular one is also acceptable.  I try to incorporate my German heritage into the holiday season when I can.

My husband once accused me of making up the holiday so I could buy my son more presents!  Nope.  It’s real.  I had to print out articles from the internet to prove it.  Even some of my Catholic friends said it wasn’t a real holiday – until their priest presented it!  I remember giving them a hard time that they are now celebrating a “consumer” holiday.  Of course now they just argue that it is religious one.  Do you celebrate Saint Nicks or do you keep your stockings for Santa on Christmas?




My Favorite Podcasts.

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Like listening to podcasts?  I think it is a great way to pass the time. I love podcasts.  I listen them in my car, while waiting for a doctors appointment, walking the dog, trying to sleep (I’m an insomniac), and working on my blog.

What podcasts to listen to?  The possibilities are endless.  You look at all the varieties of categories and the breadth of podcasts in each category the possibilities are endless.  What to listen to?  Here are some of my favorite podcasts.  I hope you enjoy!

True Crime Japan. I must admit, I love a mystery. I don’t like gore.  I avoid many crime television shows for that reason.  I don’t like to see people hurt or the evidence of it.  What interests me is why someone disappears.  What is the motivation of someone?  The psychology of it all.  In True Crime Japan, the hosts cover various crimes all commited in the land of the rising sun.  Because Japan’s culture is so unique from that of America’s it’s crimes also take on a different meaning.  Everything from how or why they happen to how they are investigated is unique to the Japanese culture.  I makes me wonder how different things are in say Nigeria, or Chile?  While True Crime Japan does not broadcast a lot it is definately worth subscribing.  Also, their hosts must put a lot of work into research and then translating.  So be patient.  It is worth it to see the unique quirks of a cluture as well as the dark elements not show in the tourist guides.

The Art of Charm. “The Art of Charm” is a broadcast geared towards men.  However, I think the topics they cover apply to both sexes. It is designed to help men improve their social skills thus improving their life. “The Art of Charm” also has a webpage and physical location to ficilitate more learning.  What I love about this podcast is the experts they have in each episode.  You can always go to that person’s website or get their book to learn more.  Past topics include: How to improve memory, how to gain confidence, how to survive a faster furture, and relationship exit stradgey.

The Minimalists.  The minimalists consist of Joshua Fields Milburn and Ryan Nicodemus.  Two childhood friends who starting living the minimalist lifestyle.  They have written books, done a documentary, have a weekly podcast and a blog helping others define and live their own minimalist lifestyle.  I like this broadcast because every week it reminds me to evaluate what I own and if I need it.  You hear questions from other listeners and get and give answers to their particular situation.  So take some time and join the minimalist movement.

Stuff Your Mom Never Told You.  This podcast is a cornucopia of various topics. It’s a great way to spend your time. Topics the podcast has looked into in the past include: The Vegetarian Gender (definition of Vegetarian and Vegan and what gender has to do with it), Women of a Certain Age (about the aging process in women), Is Burlesque the same thing as stripping, and What does a feminist look like.  Podcasts are short and too the point.  A great way to spend your listening time.

Thinking Sideways. Okay, this podcast is my guilty pleasure. I love to listen to this one. This podcast examines everything from crime to cryptozoology, aliens to the atomic bomb and everything in between.  The hosts Devin, Joe, and Steve sit down every week to discuss a new topic.  They try to be skeptical but allow for some crazy theories if they are presented as a solution by others.  The hosts are just ordinary people investigating and learning about extraordinary things in our world.  Past topics have included: McCormack Cypher, The Spanish Flu, Dyatlov Pass, Isdal Woman, The Princes in the Tower, The Wow signal, Maura Murry disappearance, Isabella Art Theft, Lord Lucan and Atlantis.  Interested in the strangeness of the world? Give Thinking Sideways a try.

Unfound.  My final recommendation is the podcast called “Unfound.”  It is a missing persons podcast.  Each episode investigates what happened to a missing person before their disappearance and the investigation afterwards.  The story of the missing person is told by someone with firsthand knowledge of the case such as a relative or friend.  The aim of the podcast is to try and solve the disappearance and keep the disappeared in the spotlight.  I think the host does a good job of presenting the facts while showing those left behind compassion and patience.  He not only presents the disappearance but the personality of the disappeared is also presented.  They (the disappeared) are not just a story but real people which sets this podcast apart from others in the genre.